Tuesday, December 27, 2011

WHY DO I EXIST?

WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE
IF I DON'T EXIST
ANYWAY THE WORLD STILL CONTINUE
WITHOUT MY PRESENCE

I'M LIKE BE STRANDED TO THE WORLD
BECAUSE I HAVE NEVER ASKED
TO BE BORN

GLADNESS, JOY AND SORROW
COME AND GO IN MY LIFE
WHAT'S IT FOR?

IF I DON'T NEED TO EXIST,
SURELY NOR DO MY LIFE IMPORTANT
WHEN THE ANGEL OF DEATH COME TO PICK ME UP
WHAT'S HAPPENED LATER?

I JUST LEAVE SOME MEMORIES
BE REMINDED JUST FOR A MOMENT
AND THEN...
THE WORLD CONTINUE MOVING
I'M LIKE NEVER EXIST
BUT...
I EXIST BECAUSE OF LOVE
SO I'M NOT AFRAID OF AND WORRY ABOUT
BECAUSE LOVE IS NEVER END

Friday, December 16, 2011

COSMETIC (PLASTIC) SURGERY



A.                Introduction
            Nowadays, science development and technological progress have provided us with new comforts and many other advantages. In the area of science, biomedical science has given us new possibilities to alter and modify various life forms. One of them is cosmetic surgery which can improve one’s appearance and even change totally his/her human form. For instances, a child who was born with medical problems and those who have body damages can be improved by cosmetic surgery. However, there are people who just want to make their noses shapelier, larger breasts, thinner legs, flatter ears, etc.  
            We are living in a world that beauty and self image have become an obsession and this kind of procedure panders to that. Cosmetic surgery is the latest phenomenon in the long history of the objectification of women in society. In general, the pressures of appearance apply particularly to women. We can see in the media that many actresses and models undergo major breast enlargement surgery, facelifts, rhinoplasty, etc with the intention of aesthetic and beauty. These days, the role of the media gives too much emphasis on aesthetics which make many people worry about their appearance. The media consistently implies that unless we are beautiful or handsome, we will never succeed in life or even find a mate.            
            The significance of this study is not just simply to inform the readers to acknowledge the reality of cosmetic surgery in our society today, but also to help them to see the impacts of this phenomenon and the intention behind it which can be judged morally. An online website, American Society of Plastic Surgeons (ASPS) [1] conducted a study in 2007 in the USA which it shows that many American people are quite worry about their appearance and believe that if they have a good appearance they will easily get a better job. The ASPS notes that almost 12 million cosmetic surgery procedures were performed in 2007 which has been increasing 59 % since 2000. The ASPS found that the top five surgical procedures were breast augmentation (348,000, up 6%), liposuction (302,000), nose reshaping (285,000, down 7 %), eyelid surgery (241,000, up 3%), and tummy tuck (148,000, up 1%).
            This issue becomes debatable because many people are trying to criticize, or even against it and many other people accept it as something normal in our society. Some people argue against cosmetic surgery because it seems more like vanity/self indulgence and wasteful in term of spending money for other needs. The detractors believe that it’s much nobler to expend our efforts and spend our money improving our mind and knowledge rather than our bodies. Proponents on the other hand, point out that we spend time improving ourselves in many ways. This issue is morally problematic even though anything someone pursues to make him/herself look or feel better is not morally wrong. In fact, beautifying and enhancing ourselves is a neutral human instinct, but when we come to a moral judgment, every action of cosmetic surgery is being judged according to the reasons and motivations we are taking. It can be beneficial for one self but also it can be an act of vanity or self-indulgence.
B.     Notion of Cosmetic Surgery
            According to Ducan, one of the editors of Dictionary of Medical Ethics, cosmetic surgery is more related to the art of adorning or beautifying the body or improving appearances[2]. In medicine and healthcare world view cosmetic surgery is a specialized area of medicine that deals with the enhancement of the human form. It concerns with the repair, restoration, or improvement of lost, injured, defective, or misshapen body parts. In other term some people call it as plastic surgery which use of the word “plastic” is considered to be synonymous with “fake” or “superficial.”
            The ASPS describes that there was already medical treatment for facial injuries more than 4,000 years ago (about 800 B.C.E) by physicians in India who were utilizing skin grafts for reconstructive work. Then, the wars during the late 19th and early 20th century drove the development of cosmetic surgery in order to repair facial defects of the soldiers caused by war[3]. In few years after progress in medicine of plastic surgery moved quickly that has been affecting the aesthetic procedure until now. Consequently, plastic surgeons began to realize that cosmetic surgery procedures could also be used to enhance beauty.
            Benedict M. Ashley notices that cosmetic surgery has two major components, reconstructive and cosmetic. First, reconstructive surgery involves restoring damaged or altered parts of the body (via genetics, trauma, disease, etc) that are usually not the result of normal aging. This includes things like cleft lip and palate repair, removal of excess skin after massive weight loss, pinning back of prominent ears, skin grafts, facial fractures and lacerations, scar revisions, coverage of massive tissue, etc. On the other hand, He defines cosmetic surgery as purely changing aspects of the body to alter the course of aging or to make a body part that is “normal” look better. The purpose of cosmetic surgery is simply the enhancement of sexual attractiveness or the concealment of normal aging, such as facelifts, rhinoplasty, breast enhancement, liposuction, eyes and eyelids, chin surgery or mentoplasty, ear surgery or otoplasty, dental surgery, tummy tuck, etc[4].
C.    ETHICAL AND MORAL ISSUE IN COSMETIC SURGERY
·         The Concept of Beauty and Normal in Cosmetic Surgery
            There are some reasons why people undergo cosmetic surgery. First of all, one of the most important reasons is feeling uncomfortable or even discontent with body. Many people see their self-esteem is just linked with how they look. We cannot deny that our society has built this kind of feeling such as young, fresh, smooth, white, and shiny skin of body especially woman’s body which has been shown in mass media through advertisement. As a matter of fact that the main reason of cosmetic surgery is to make people feel better about themselves. Most people are motivated to undergo cosmetic surgery because of body-image dissatisfaction. Linda L. Alexander and companions find that many women look for cosmetic surgery because the media has created the body image which results in their excessive dieting and eating disorders. By quoting International Study of body language in 1997, Linda shows the increasing of women who are discontent with their bodies, appearance, and weight[5].
      The second reason is considering the fact that western culture has proven to be the dominating world culture, so there is a kind of racial inferiority in our society today. Therefore, many people tend to be more western looking. Cressida J. Heyes, a feminist who studies on cosmetic surgery in Asian context figures out that all cosmetic surgeries are ethnics[6]. In the same line, Ducan also points out that alteration of normal ethnic features by removing and improving certain parts of body to make one’s self more western looking. According to the study of an online website, Psychology Today,[7] cosmetic surgeons use medical terminology and racist descriptions to convince potential patients that eyelids without folds are "sleepy" and that flat nasal bridge signify a "lack of force" in character. For this reason many Asian people visit their cosmetic surgeons to have their eyelids ceased, their nose bridges heightened, their nose tips sharpened, etc.
      Third reason is a kind of youth illusion that develops nowadays. Many people are trying to undertake cosmetic to be look younger because of the “old” image is a grumpy and ugly[8]. Psychology Today notes that this is a natural response, but this kind of fear can be easily happened to those who are in the golden years of life[9]. People tend to lose their appreciation for aging naturally and finding beauty in other people of all different ages. This can be symptomatic of a society where old people are no longer reverent and respected. In this society old people have negative association of wisdom and experience. It gives us the impressions that we are living in a society where natural beauty is dead.  
      The fourth reason is rooted in the desire to feel sexier or sexually attractive. There is a kind of feeling of sexual incompleteness that force people to attract others and look for sexual recognition. For example, a woman has a flat chest will undergo breast implants in order to look sexier to others. Sandra Leiblum and Judith Sachs prove that more and more believe that changing the outside will resolve the conflict and discontent going on within. It is marked by the increasing of people who undergo cosmetic surgery in order to feel beautiful and sexy[10]. Judith Sachs herself acknowledges the effect of cosmetic surgery after her cosmetic surgeon removed all the scar tissue in her body. She feels sexier because her body is so well adjusted and she feels more comfortable with her body[11].
      In my opinion, the big problem with cosmetic surgery is what people are defining as “beauty and normal”. Mass media has the most significant roles in creating body image about anything less than perfect is not “ beauty and normal.” Psychology Today shows that some patients in consultation and in the operating room are some of the most psychologically complex patients in all of medicine (and quite often unstable). Some have become so convinced and brainwashed that a certain aspect of their body is not “normal” that their identity and self-worth are all balanced on the potential of a scalpel[12].
·         Is Cosmetic Surgery an Idolatry of the Body?
Cosmetic Surgery can be taken into account as one kind of idolatry of the body because it is merely patching up the outside and not the wholeness of a person. It in many ways promotes worship of physical human beauty by correcting or changing a part of the body in order to improve physical appearance. Though there are some surgeries that are undertaken in order to correct malformations resulting from injuries or deformity. These latter surgeries have to be acknowledged as a positive thing in our society. Therefore, all these procedures of surgeries reveal a person’s image of the human body to a worldly standard. The question is how we come to judge cosmetic surgery as morally justifiable or not?
According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church number 2289, “the church rejects a neo-pagan notion that tends to promote the cult of the body, to sacrifice everything for its sake, to idolize physical perfection and success at sports.” It gives us the idea that this statement is implicitly related to the practice of cosmetic surgery because by some means it relates to the human body, but generally the Church never condemned it specifically and officially. The issue here is overemphasize or exaggerate in caring of the body by some means is not in the line with the Church teaching about human body and human person because they see the bodily earthly life as the definitive one. It is different case from the obligation of the body which is intrinsically good.
In short, balance has to be here regarding to the task to take care of our own body. Those who are too much focus on their body and how it looks are led by the preoccupation with fashion and keeping up with advertising attention by going far beyond what modesty word require. It gives us the impression that cosmetic surgery is necessary, but it is unessential for a person who undergoes it without any significant reason.
·         The Role of Physician in Cosmetic Surgery
      Cosmetic surgery is not merely a personal decision, but also needs the physician’s approval. Every action relates to morality and ethics in our society. One ethical issue in cosmetic surgery is about autonomy. In terms of making decisions, patients are free to choose cosmetic surgery and spending money for it because of his or her autonomy as a human person. The other ethical issue relates to the physician or surgeon. Physicians should provide a maximum benefit for the patients such as the health of the patients and their safety.
      We have to consider that all kinds the surgery involves risks that must be fairly well defined before surgery undertaken. Ethical consent denotes a decision-making process based on mutual respect and full disclosure between doctor and patient. Surgeon needs to accurately ascertain the emotional state and the patient’s expectation (with the help of psychologist or psychotherapist). In addition, surgeon needs to know what is aesthetically pleasing to surgeon may differ from what patient imagines as ideal result.
      Regarding to this ethical issue, Benedict M. Ashley, says that we have “ethical norms that we should respect the rights of others.” He adds that we need to understand what a right is, and then allow people to make their own decision about health care procedure[13]. There are several norms regarding to the content of Catholic Health care ethics derived from the experience of human beings enlightened by the teaching and examples of Jesus for centuries such as the principle of well formed conscience, informed consent, double effect, cooperation, professional communication, human dignity, common good and subsidiarity, totality and integrity, stewardship and creativity, inner freedom, personalized sexuality and growth through suffering[14].
We know that many people undergo cosmetic surgery for merely aesthetically improved personal appearance. Nevertheless, the questions that here are about their necessity and moral legitimacy because the fact that cosmetic surgery always involves some risks. The Church gives answers using the application of the theological principle of totality, autonomy and in the examination of the intentions and consciousness. Applying the principle of totality the Church consider that it could be morally acceptable and reasonable because even though there are risks involved we have to admit that there are a lot of personal advantages anticipated in a particular cosmetic surgical procedure. To apply autonomy and consciousness in cosmetic surgery, the Church recommends that it should be undertaken by a person who is really free from any pressure (autonomy) and he/she is aware of the risks. In terms of the intentions, cosmetic surgery could become morally wrong if undertaken for a wrong intention such as to feed one's personal vanity inordinately, to facilitate some immoral activity, or for a criminal to evade justice or make easier the commission of further crimes.
James F. Drane, in his theory and practice in making medical-ethical decision explains that:
“The principle of patient autonomy or patient’s right to give an informed consent is first of all a right to refuse treatment and the right to choose from medically justifiable options. … Physicians should maintain communication with patients throughout the patient participation in medical decision-making.”[15] 
He emphasizes that this principle applies in order to help and not to harm the patients. In this sense, it becomes clear to us to consider that a physician must treat the patient as a person and not as organ or tissue. In other words, there is the patient autonomy and the physician beneficence.           
·         The Benefits and the Risks of Cosmetic Surgery
We are aware of the facts that the benefits of cosmetic surgery are fantastic both physically and spiritually or emotionally. For example, people will not only look and feel younger, prettier, fresher, thinner, skinny, etc, but also become more confident, more outgoing, more personable because the rise of self-esteem. Consequently, people become more active in their work and much healthier because they find themselves psychologically and physically are balance. They become more focus on their job and responsibilities rather than conscious and worry about their physical problems. These are some significant advantages in improving one’s appearance.
We should acknowledge and appreciate that modern procedures have greatly dismissed most risk in cosmetic surgery and it has given a lot of benefit for improving one’s appearance. However, like many other procedures, cosmetic surgery has some degree of risks. Therefore, the patients should consider the possible dangers and risks involved in any kinds of cosmetic surgery. Beautifying and enhancing ourselves is neutral human intrinsic, but its risks and effects have to be weighed maturely. The ASPS confirms that it is a business service provided to those who desire it, can pay for it and are willing to accept the risks involved. Lack of legal safeguards and medical accountability, and the probability that only badly qualified doctors will offer illegal operations will defer almost everyone from risking black market surgery. Benefit of it is still not covering up the fact that its intention is to make money, not to make people better[16].
      Regarding to the dangers of cosmetic surgery Magdalena Alagna, by referring to Encyclopedia of Medicine describes some common risks of cosmetic surgery such as[17]: Scars, bleeding, infection and hematomas, and nerve damage. Scars is one of the most common risks Sometimes people may have to get more cosmetic surgery to get rid of ugly scars. She proves that most surgeons will try to hide incision lines in places where they aren't noticeable, like under the crease of the breast in breast augmentation plastic surgery and in the hairline in facial plastic surgery, but most surgeries will still result in permanent scarring. Bleeding, infection and hematomas are possible after surgery, but if these complications are caught early on they can usually be treated. Nerve damage is a serious complication. Some people who undergo plastic surgery will lose feeling in the area that was operated on while others may experience problems moving muscles in the area where the surgery was performed. Therefore, the patients should consider and be aware of all of these risks before undertaking cosmetic surgery.
      In the same line, Alagna also shows some risks associated with some of the most common procedures such as breast augmentation which risks include sensory damage around the operation site, discoloration of the skin, tissue necrosis, asymmetry, infection, formation of scar tissue, and allergic reactions to sedation. Facial plastic surgery, on the other hand, can lead to noticeable tissue damage, unnatural looking features and premature aging. Not only will the procedure determine the risks involved but so will the individual. Smokers, people with diabetes, heart conditions and certain allergies are more likely to experience complications that other people can avoid[18].  It is obvious that the type of procedure will determine the risks that are involved.
For that reason, Alagna suggests that it is important for the patient to have blood tests and a physical done to ensure that he or she is a good candidate for surgery and to look into the procedure the patient is considering and learn about the risks involved[19]. The risks of plastic surgery will differ depending on the individual and the procedure they opt for. Plastic surgery complications can range from scarring to fatalities and the effects of surgery can sometimes be traumatizing to patients both physically and psychologically.
·         Cosmetic Surgery, Career and Human Dignity
      We are living in a society which has changed dramatically. Now, we are in the state of crisis in the economy and global recession which people tend to believe that appearance and good looks, beauty are really matter in the business world. This strongly influences the hiring and firing policy at workplace. For instance people are forced to undergo cosmetic surgery with the intention of enhancing their appearance because it will give them great advantages to get job easily. The survey conducted by online website, Psychology Today releases that most of women in the USA were going for cosmetic surgery just to get a competitive edge in the workplace and secure their career. The ASPS concludes that cosmetic surgery plays an important role in achieving professional success[20].
      Furthermore, there are many people who do cosmetic surgery out of pressure from the romantic partner, family or friends. The pressures of appearance apply particularly to women. In many cases women, especially young brides, sometimes do cosmetic surgery under pressure from family or romantic partner before the wedding in order to look prettier for the new husband. People who have problems with their appearance tend to undergo cosmetic surgery because of their rejection sensitivity. Many researches approve that people who feel rejection based on their physical appearance are more likely to express interest in having cosmetic surgery than those who are less sensitive to a consolation; that individuals who anxiously expect rejection based on their appearance are vulnerable to the effects of negative comments about their appearance[21]. The question that arises here is why someone should change his or her look just to make others happy?
      I consider that people are just amazed with someone who has normal or even best physical standard of appearance. For me, the most important thing here is a matter of acceptance of others as they are, not only based on their look, but as person or an individual. Society has created an image of beauty and normal which is continuously bombarded by the media. Many people are forced to alter their look in order to conform to what portrayed on TV or other media. This is the consequence of over emphasizing on aesthetics by media and make people not be happy with what nature has given them. Media create the myths and beliefs that those who are beautiful or handsome and look normal will succeed rather those who are not. In other words, cosmetic surgery can improve one’s relationship and helps to get job, but we should consider that cultural changes increasingly emphasize one’s physical appearance as a qualification in many sectors of the business world.
According to James Keenan, the Christian tradition has always insisted that the human body is not simply an object but it is always a person, a subject. The Christian tradition is to direct us away from any tendency to isolate or objectify the body. He shows some kinds of manipulation of body such as pornography, prostitution, selling of organs, genetic engineering, and cloning. People manipulate the body without looking upon how it affects the kind of persons they would become. On the other hand, some people may manipulate themselves in order to be more acceptable to others by taking cosmetic surgery, idealization of certain body types through advertising, promoting unhealthy body models to children. All these are a kind of overemphasis on the body as a determinant of the person’s worth and dignity. These can become a kind of discrimination because people manipulate their body to be accepted[22].
We do not just have our body, we are our bodies. An integral human development refers to the development of the whole person and every person. To be a subject, the human body needs its own voice. Human body provides means to be united intimately with Christ which in our Christian tradition is extraordinary physical – incarnation. The Church seeks to care for the needs of both the spiritual and physical dimensions of the human person. Healthy appreciation of the body promotes the common good that would benefit the live of every person. Therefore we must avoid a negative view of the body as evil or less important than the soul. For instance, promoting cosmetic surgery or undergoing cosmetic surgery purely because of shame of body or identification of a part of the body as bad. We cannot make judgments on the moral and spiritual state of a person based on their physical state such as manipulating the body through cosmetic surgery in order to make one self more acceptable.
Cosmetic surgery by some means relates to human dignity. Catholic Church clearly underlines that:
“The dignity of the human person is rooted in his creation in the image and likeness of God (article 1); it is fulfilled in his vocation to divine beatitude (article 2). It is essential to a human being freely to direct himself to this fulfillment (article 3). By his deliberate actions (article 4), the human person does, or does not, conform to the good promised by God and attested by moral conscience (article 5). Human beings make their own contribution to their interior growth; they make their whole sentient and spiritual lives into means of this growth (article 6). With the help of grace they grow in virtue (article 7), avoid sin, and if they sin they entrust themselves as did the prodigal son1 to the mercy of our Father in heaven (article 8). In this way they attain to the perfection of charity” (Catechism of the Catholic Church No. 1700).
           Catholic Moral theology after Vatican II gives more attention to the human person, in all his/her dimension and historical development. Human person is adequately considered when she/he is taken as the image of God – sacredness and dignity of every person, a relational being - to be human person is to be toward others. Human person also is an embodiment subject – a moral agent with certain degree of autonomy and self-determination empowered to act according to her conscience, freedom and knowledge. As a historical subject each person should be respected in our developmental process, and considering person as persons on a journey of growth and can develop and change through time. We need to consider also that as a human person we are fundamentally equal but uniquely original. We seek to promote what is universally good for all but we must allow for diversity in the expression of what is morally good according to the unique culture and background of individuals.        
d. Conclusion   
            There are a lot of opinions regarding cosmetic surgery, but as the bottom line here, I will sum up some significant points which are the following:
            First, Reconstructive surgery is generally considered a good thing in the case of cleft lip and palate repair, facial fractures and lacerations, scar revisions, etc. This kind of cosmetic surgery is purely in order to repair and restore the originally intended order of the body according to what is "normal" for a human and it is a good thing. Therefore, there is nothing wrong in these cases. Cosmetic surgery should be undertaken with a prudent choice of those involved and there is no damage. However, if there is significant harm done or the surgery is intrinsically wrong, then plastic surgery should not be done.
            Second, the other matter that should be part of the decision is motivation or intention is it for a health reason or for pure vanity. Regarding to this, the critical questions we could be asked is what is the intention? Is the purpose of doing so to hide a feature we don't like, please someone else, a part of a tribal ritual, etc? Some reasons are good, some are not.
            Third, cosmetic surgery also relates to financial resources and its procedures because the procedures might harm the patient (physical, mental, spiritual) and if there is significant damage to the integrity of the body, then cosmetic surgery could be morally wrong. For instance, there are some kinds of cosmetic surgery that can cause parts of the body to lose some or all functionality. Here we can also ask how this will affect others and can we afford it. We are not only to do as we wish, but rather we need to think of others and consider our financial condition. These are three significant aspects that we should consider before deciding to undertake it.
            Some people have their lives significantly improved by cosmetic surgery, yet there are also other people who go too far, losing their identities or even their lives in their pursuit of perfection. Psychologically, people take cosmetic surgery because they have negative self-image. In other words, they do not accept their physical reality or are unhappy with their external appearance.
            In my opinion, it’s unfair if the society through the mass media overemphasize the physical appearance as a quality of one’s life rather the wholeness of a person. We can see how artificial our live is. The implication here is people just see human being more likely as an object, not as a subject. We can notice how the obsession with physical appearance and the pursuit of conformity to an earthly standard of health and beauty dominate our cultural landscape, tremendously influenced by the advertising and entertainment media. The problem sometimes is as more people are cosmetically enhanced, so there will be more people suffering from low–esteem, because they cannot afford to be like the celebrities who look so “perfect”. Therefore, it is clear that the practice of the cosmetic surgery purely relates to the notion of physical beauty as defined by certain social norms. ***

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[1] NN, Plastic Surgery Procedures Maintain Steady Growth in 2007, http://www.plasticsurgery.org/Media/Press_Releases/Plastic_Surgery_Procedures_Maintain_Steady_Growth_in_2007.html, Accessed on January 21, 2010, at 08.44 pm

[2] Archibald Sutherland Duncan, Gordon Reginald Dunstan, and Richard Burkewood Welbourn, Dictionary of Medical Ethics (London: Darton, Longman & Todd, 1981), 121

[3]American Society of Plastic Surgeons (ASPS). “The History of Plastic Surgery, ASPS and PSEF,” 2010 http://www.plasticsurgery.org/About_ASPS/History_of_Plastic_Surgery.html, (Acceseed on January 12, 2010)

[4] Benedict M. Ashley, Jean DeBlois and Kevin D. O’Rourke. Health care ethics: a Catholic Theological Analysis, (Washington DC: Georgetown University Press:, 2006), 109
[5] Linda Lewis Alexander and others, eds,  New Dimensions in Women's Health, (UK: Jones & Bartlett Publisher, 2007), 255.

[6] Cressida J. Heyes, Cosmetic surgery: a Feminist Primer, (England: Ashgate Publishing Limited, 2009), 191

[7] PT Staff, “When 'Sleepy Eyes' Won't Do”,  September 01, 1993, http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/199309/when-sleepy-eyes-wont-do, (Accessed on January 23)
[8] Elizabeth Moltman-Wendel. I am My Body, (London: SCM Press, 1995), 28
[9] Psychology Today, “Anti-Aging”, October 15, 2009”, http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/who-am-i/200910/anti-aging, (Accessed on January 29, 2010)
[10] Sandra Leiblum and Judith Sachs, Getting the Sex You Want: A Woman's Guide to Becoming Proud, Passionate, and pleased in Bed, (Lincoln: Crown Publisher 2003), 216
[11] Ibid. 217

[12] Psychology Today.  “Am I normal? Yes, but You’re still Overweight”, December 15, 2008, http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/bad-appetite/200812/am-i-normal-yes-you-re-still-overweight, (Accessed on February 3, 2010)

[13] Benedict M. Ashley and Kevin D. O’Rourke, Ethics of Health Care, (Washington DC: Georgetown University Press, 2002), 17
[14] Ibid. p. 17-29
[15] James F. Drane, Clinical Bioethics, (Kansas City: Sheed and Ward, 1994), 131
[16] American Society of Plastic Surgeons (ASPS). “How to Choose a Plastic Surgeon”, http://www.plasticsurgery.org/Documents/patients_consumers/How-to-Choose-a-Plastic-Surgeon-Guide.pdf, (Accessed on February 6, 2010).
[17] Magdalena Alagna, Dangers of Cosmetic Surgery, (New York: Publishing group. Inc, 2002), 30-34
[18] Ibid. 35
[19] Ibid. 35

[20] Psychology Today, “Framework Matching Career Type True Self”, December 29, 2009 http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-career-within-you/200912/framework-matching-career-type-true-self, (Accessed on February 7, 2010)

[21] Lora E. Park and Others, eds, “Predicting interest in cosmetic surgery: Interactive effects of appearance-based rejection sensitivity and negative appearance comments”, 2009, http://www.buffalo.edu/news/pdf/Juneo09/LoraParkCosmeticSurgeryStudy.pdf, (Accessed On January 12, 2010) pm
[22] James Keenan, Christian Perspectives on the Human Body, Theological Studies 55 (1994) 330-346

Saturday, November 26, 2011

MORALITY IN DECLINE

Morals in western society and many countries are falling very fast in just a few decades. For examples, disrespect to the elders, cheating on exams, vandalism, sexual behaviour, fashions that focus on showing as much skin as possible, dancing is more stimulated sex (freak dance) and many others. Many people blame the entertainment media that show pop stars who are being sexy and scenes of violence in movies in order to become popular. The result of society’ preoccupation with violence and sex is not shocking anymore. The reasons are because the producers of entertainment media argue that they are only giving people what they want as an artistic creation. On the other hand, rising divorce rates and social misfits and also the rising of digital communication technology that really affects the society mainstream.
            All of these are the facts that we are facing today. Regarding some of those ads, it also became evident that roots had strongly taken place in our society. It is quite marked that having "fun" is more important than being traditional; values such as hard work and fidelity. Then the massive thrust of mass media like television and theatres that taught generations today that sex, and alternative lifestyles, marital infidelity, and divorce are all to be accepted as normal. The violence from Hollywood movies has also inundated the minds of our society, and has taken root as well. We have allowed Hollywood movies to flood our homes with garbage sitcoms and other movies that endorse and glorify these strange values.
            It is the matter of fact that our society is most influenced by information technology and mass media in every aspect. They create any kind of things that affect the society. The mentality that is created by technology and mass media is more powerful than any other religious teaching and cultural habits. In this age of technology and mass media, we have to control and have the ability to use these things for the good of our society, without being used by them or we use them for its corruption and degradation. We can see apparently a state of self centred ideology where the upcoming generations desire all their parents have without the hard work. I can say that we will fall much faster if we do not return to our original roots or we will reclaim our roots and our morality and take back what has been stolen from us by the liberal and immoral tenets that have soaked the minds of the today’s generations and the coming up generations after us.
            In the New Dialogue of Institute for Advanced technology in Humanity, Virginia (IATH), participants are persuaded that there is a major cause of the current moral crisis deserving special scrutiny. It is a cause in the sense of a triggering event which has brought about great change and, in the process, has thrown persons and society out of the practice of thinking about collective problems from a moral point of view. The cause is the new economic order of global market capitalism. The new way of thinking is a form of economic rationality that we have termed the "rationality of cash flow capitalism” which is an amoral way of thinking.[1] In other words, economical capitalism mindset has created and changed the global market and affect the person and social morality.
            The questions arise here: “who is responsible to control our moral behaviour? What is the solution we can do in facing moral crisis today?” The answer is that each of us is responsible to control ourselves and also collaborate with others to get to the bottom of these problems. However, the government should make a policy to control it for the good of all. It has to be taken seriously as the participants of the New Dialogue have started the dialogue process by focusing attention on the set of problems emerging in the new economic order that impact on society and the natural world. We should look at what it is doing to persons, to human communities and societies around the globe, and to the natural world, evaluate them and examine its moral roots in order to provide the economic benefits it produces. For this reason we should be critical to the current economic paradigm and the rationality by which it operates.
            In summary, the lack of a common moral ground what many people today see and experience as a crisis in society, must be recognized that the crisis is decisively moral and spiritual in nature and personal, not just social, and must be resolved first at those deeper personal levels. It means that each person must be ready to ask in economic or business situations whether some personal self restraint is necessary in the economic sphere in order to achieve a more moral community and global society. Each of us should do what we can to bring about a human and moral form of capitalism as the legacy that our society will live under and export to other parts of the world. Therefore, we have to be more critical toward everything that’s showed by mass media, not just following what’s going on in our society, but to get positive aspect from them and to build it up. In other words the economical capitalism system should have a certain moral boundaries which are necessary to maintain stable economic and social institutions that will help navigate the global economic system to a more human and for our common well.

[1] NN, Cause of the Moral Crisis, in http://www2.iath.virginia.edu/cecmpe/crisiscause.html

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COPING WITH STRESS


A lot of people suffer from stress. It is not healthy. Stress can affect everyone because of many reasons, such as socio-economic status, age, work/job, etc. It is an unavoidable consequence of our lives.  On the other hand, it can be positive to challenge someone to do the best and work hard, but most of the time it affects negatively someone’s life and also life in a society. The American Institute of Stress (AIS) defines stress to be the most common health problem in every industrialized country in the world that causes heart disease, cancer and liver disease.  The AIS estimates that job related stress costs the US industry 300 billion dollars a year. How do we deal with stress? There are some ways such as exercise, stop smoking, meditation and deep breathing and many other methods can be used.  
            Stress is a normal part of our life that can happen to everyone and not all stress is bad.  Each of us experiences stress in our lives every now and then. However, when we begin feeling out of control or having trouble coping with stressors, we may suffer. We can find many ways of identifying the stress in our life and then make a plan for dealing with it in a healthy way. We can deal with stress by using the healthy skills or by coming up with our own ways to cope.  In short, no one can avoid stress in his or her life. Everyone must deal with stress and it's our choice how to react.  If we need more help, reach out to others, such as our friends, family, relatives and neighbor who can be help us to overcome the stress.     
            There are several reasons that cause stress. According to a report on website run by St. Botanica,[1] the first reason is frustration which can be caused by their workplace, a relationship, social issues or moral and philosophical response to society. The second reason is conflicts which happen when people are in confusion or a difficult situation to decide something essential in their lives. For instance, a working mother may be stressed out because she is not able to give proper time to her baby and at the same time, she feels that her job is also important. Moreover, a study conducted by another web site,changemind.org[2] points out that there are some causes of stress, such as threat, fear, uncertainty, and cognitive dissonance. Threat includes physical threats, social threats, financial threat, and so on which can raise fear. Uncertainty when we are unable to predict, therefore, we are not in control, and may make someone feel threatened by that which is causing the uncertainty; and cognitive dissonance when there is a gap between what we do and what we think. In short, psychologically, stress is a state of emotion that is caused by any kind of feeling in reacting to something happening in one’s life.
            Some people deal with stress positively by looking at it as a challenge. Stress can be a positive thing that it can challenge us to go beyond or transcend boundaries and ideas we had about ourselves. In challenge, we focus on gain as opposed to focusing on potential for harm and threat. It involves judgments that the demands of the stressor situation can be met and overcome without overtaxing resources. In this sense challenge may facilitate rather than damage cognitive and emotional coping. On the other hand, stress can become negative if we are feeling overwhelmed by difficult circumstances and trying to escape or ignore it instead of facing the problems in our lives by looking for such things like, smoking, consuming drugs, going to night clubs, drinking alcohol, etc.
            To deal with stress is not a matter of avoiding the problems, but we have to face it and to look for the solution. There are many ways to control our stress, but first of all, we should learn how to handle stressful feelings, create time out in our lives, and learn how to relate to ourselves in a different way. Finally, we should realize that life is filled with all kinds of problems, but we should be able to attune ourselves to the fact that, we should take one step at a time in our struggles. ***



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